I believe in fate, destiny, and God. I think that they all fit into one category. You can not choose you fate or destiny and it can't be chosen for you but there's one exception. God. , God has a plan. For you, and me, I choose to fallow that plan and I dont question it. I believe Gods plan is our destiny. If your fate leads to something tragic dont ask why, say thank you, because it's part of the plan. You didn't choose to live , and you can never be certain that God is real... it may seem hard to believe, but it may be true. However, You can choose if you do believe or not. That it where your destiny begins but you can build towards your dream.